#RHOC -- Please Alexis, not the "Christian" moniker...

As a fellow Christian, I would like to point out to Alexis Bellino that you can't go on "Real Housewives of Orange County" and talk about your faith while also bragging (as a single woman) that you're having sex four times a day with your boyfriend.

First of all, gross.  No one wants to hear it. 

Next, we have riding for a mediocre man who was awful to his ex-girlfriend. Sued her publicly -- telling People Magazine before the woman he was suing. Claiming he doesn't want any fame, but showing up on Bravo any chance he gets. That's not kind. If, as a single woman, I had a new man (not likely as I don't leave the house) I would not throw it in my ex's face. I'd prove that I had moved on and keep it quiet. Why?  Because it's not Christian to purposely hurt people. To rub painful subjects in their face is the epitome of cruel. 

Listen, we've all sinned and fall short. I'm not claiming to be any role model for Christianity. But why? Why would you know all about John's finances to the extent where you tell Shannon about all his "receipts?" Girl, that is none of your business, and even if it was, why are you spending hours finding out what your boyfriend spent on his ex? If my boyfriend were that obsessed with "vindication" I would consider that a huge red flag. 

Speaking from experience, there is nothing worse than people who value money over humanity. Those kind of people never have enough and their morality goes right out the window when it comes to financial gain. That is not a great partner in life. I've also made some dumb romantic choices, so I'm going to give Alexis a pass now that the show is over and she had time to slink back to this weird relationship. 

I hope they can make it work. I also hope we don't have to hear about them again. Go, be happy. There's a difference between petty and vindictive. I always say, "I love Jesus, but I'm a little petty."  And by that, I mean, when someone reaps what they sow, it's nice to see karma in action.  Vindictive to me, is playing God. It's trying to force revenge/karma to happen. God tells us vengeance is His. I don't think anyone can say that Shannon deserved all that was thrown at her this season, but she didn't need Alexis or John helping. I hope Shannon rallies and lives her best life. And I also hope Alexis marries John Janssen.